Thursday Thirteen

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This week’s Thursday Thirteen is about the last 3 and a half years of my life and what I have been doing. So, sit back with your coffee and here goes.

  1. Hubby and I took a trip through the Panama Canal. It was a great trip, except when I started looking at the pictures taken of me, I realized I had gotten pretty heavy!
  2. The cruise was in November. So when we returned, I decided to enjoy the holidays, and then starting the following January, I would go to Weight Watchers.
  3. I remember going to my first class and weighing in. I am vein enough, that I will not tell you how much I weighed, but I will tell you that I cried as I stood there on the scale.
  4. I weighed and measured everything. I lived and breathed the plan.
  5. A year later I reached my goal! I felt like a new woman! (I was close to 60 pounds lighter!)
  6. That was the beginning of the end.
  7. I started to believe that I had licked my weight problem.
  8. I ate treats and snacks and fried foods like crazy.
  9. And we won’t even mention the fine German beer I had when I was visiting with Uschi.
  10. Before I knew what hit me, my Dad passed, and I went to class and I had gained 14 pounds.
  11. I kept going. Everyone was so wonderful and supportive.
  12. For an entire year I fought the battle. Up and down, but really not getting anywhere
  13. Until today. I reached my goal! I am back where I should be and I am going to do it long term! I know the facts of life this time and I am willing to do the work to stay there!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

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1. July is National Ice Cream month…your favorite flavor? Soft served, hand dipped, or frozen yogurt…which do you prefer? And technically yogurt is not ice cream but its hot outside so I’ll let that slide for today.

My favorite ice cream is Ben and Jerry’s Cherry Garcia. I love it served in a handmade sugar waffle cone! YUM!

2. When you travel do you tend to pack too much or too little?

Always too much. I am one of those people who say, “What if…” and then I pack that way!

3. What’s your favorite cleaning product?

Oh I love the new and improved “Fantastic” it cleans everything so well. I also like the “Clorox Clean-Ups”.

4. Which is the greater tragedy-an innocent person imprisoned or a guilty person set free? Explain.

Since a guilty person usually will recommit a crime, I would tend to lean towards setting the guilty free. I think an innocent person would eventually be exonerated and get free of the conviction. Just look at OJ. We all know he killed his ex-wife Nicole Brown Simpson and Ron Goldman, and he got off. But could he just keep out of trouble? No. Well, now he will sit in prison for a while, still not consolation for the Brown’s and the Goldman’s.

5. What’s the longest trip you’ve taken by car?

Well, actually it was motor coach, and we drove across country, down the west coast, across the southern part of the country and then back up the east coast to New Hampshire and home.

6. tennis-golf-canoeing-biking…pick one.

Biking. Although I do live in a great spot for canoeing.

7. What sound drives you crazy?

Probably the sound of wheels in my driveway when the dackels are outside. Let me explain. I always worry when the dackels are running freely in the yard and a delivery, or meter reading truck comes into the yard. Fear grips me that one of my dackels will be run over.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

I am really looking forward to returning to my hometown next week, for my High School Reunion.

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I have not been to Falmouth in 8 years and I am looking forward to revisiting my favorite beach, two of the homes I grew up in, and having fried clams and stuffed quahogs! A favorite of mine, that are best served and eaten in Falmouth!

What I Did This Past Weekend

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Our host is Gattina. Come join us and tell us what YOU did this past weekend! After all, you never know when you will need an alibi!

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The weekend was a quiet one. The heat was almost more than I could stand, so I spent most of it hugging my air conditioners. That made the 100 degree temperatures bearable!

Since the garden is still over producing, I have spent time picking vegetables and giving them away. Last night, I made a new recipe with some of the eggplant, and although it was edible, It wasn’t really what I had imagined. Sort of soggy eggplant rollatini. Needless to say, with more eggplant growing, I just tossed the leftovers, as they were not very appetizing for me and Hubby is not a big eggplant fan anyway.

Tonight I’m making Hubby Shish Kebabs! We have so many vegetables to use up, I thought it would be a great dinner. Shish Kebabs with potato salad!

I tried to catch up on sleep this weekend, but Greta woke me early both days! I will attempt to catch up during the week, as I am still feeling over tired from the sinus infection.

I will close by mentioning the beauty of the day on Sunday. Hardly a cloud in a very blue sky and 82 degrees. When I watered the garden I could hear the children laughing and playing on the beach and that made me smile!

Contemplations

I could complain about the heat, and humidity that we have had the last few days, but when I started to think about what is important in life, I decided that our “Heat Wave” didn’t really matter too much in the big picture of life.

A few days ago a friend of mine lost her boy-friend. He was taken far too young, and I know that my friend will be truly challenged in her life as she goes on.

I know. I do. It is so difficult to see that, as time goes on, the pain lessens. Right now it feels so overwhelming and strong, to her.  I know she will always love him, but I do know that one day, she will smile again.

Then the catastrophe happened in Oslo and three of my dear blog friends are Norwegians. Their country is a small, safe, loving country. In some ways it is an end to the innocence. The Norwegian government has said that it will not change the country…but all of us here in the USA know, that the day after 9/11, we were all different.

So why are we challenged with these difficult things? Perhaps so we can truly appreciate the goodness when we have it. I do not know.

I do know that when I lost my own daughter 26 years ago, I thought I would never make it, never be happy again.

But here I am. 26 years later, and my life is happy. I still love Katie. I still miss her terribly. I still do not understand why she died. I still hate it.

But…my life is good. I have my family, both human and fur, and I love and in turn I am loved!

Life has gone on!

And I’m okay!

Friday Fill-Ins

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And…here we go!

1. Life is Good.

2. The beach is one of the best places to people watch EVER because people are usually relaxed, and on vacation and having a good time There are usually a lot of laughs and smiles.

3. if I was going somewhere, the one thing I have to bring is my toothbrush.

4. One must live every moment, for life is over soon enough.

5. Next year, I want to be sure to make plans to see my friends, Uschi, and to go to the beach.

6. I stopped looking for love and I found that it found me.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to hugging an air conditioner, tomorrow my plans include another slow day of drinking lots of fluid and staying inside away from the 100+ degree weather and Sunday, I want to try a new recipe for chicken!


I’m Melting…Melting

Thursday was an incredibly, hot, humid and hazy day. Out temperature was over 100 degrees (F), and the humidity was so high. You could see the air!

I’d told Hubby we needed to get up early and go shopping for food, so right after breakfast we headed out to the shops. We got hot-dogs, hamburger, and eggs and juice and all the other items we might need to get through the next 10 days. The stores were surprisingly full, but the temperature inside wasn’t so bad, but coming outside after doing the shopping was like walking into a furnace!

Hubby and I stopped just briefly to have some lunch, as all perishables were safely in ice coolers, and then we came home and quickly put it all away.

Tonight I am just exhausted. It is supposed to be like this on Friday and Saturday too. Looks like me and the air conditioners will be spending a lot of time together!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

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1. July 20th marks the anniversary of the first time man stood on the moon. Flash forward 42 years to July 8, 2011 which marked the start of the final Space Shuttle mission. Should we continue to explore space? Should nations devote more or fewer of their resources to exploring space? Would you want to go into space if the opportunity arose?

Yes, I think we should continue exploration in space. So many things have been learned from all the trips on the Space Shuttle, etc. I feel badly that basically Washington has shut it all down now, all the while building bridges no nowhere!

2. What are three things in your freezer?

Blueberries, Norwegian Haddock, and Weight Watcher Dark Chocolate and Raspberry ice cream bars!

3. If you could see any band/artist perform live tonight who would it be? It has to be someone living…no Beatles, Elvis, etc.

Since I cannot select the Beatles, I will select Paul McCartney. Truly, the Beatles together or separately were the most influential band in music history. At least in my humble opinion!

4. Ice-cubed or crushed? Or are you one of those people who don’t like ice?

I guess I do not like ice. I like my drink refrigerator cold. I have very sensitive teeth and so if things are too cold I am in pain.

5. The owner of a small restaurant outside of Pittsburgh recently announced he was banning children under six, saying they regularly disrupted other customer’s meals. You can read the story in more detail here but isn’t this a perfect topic to discuss in our Wednesday Hodgepodge? Have at it friends…what are your thoughts?

This would not be a problem if parents taught their children how to behave in public places. Now that I have jumped in, let me also say, I raised two girls. They were taught from an early age to sit quietly in restauransts. No they were not perfect and early on we had a few meltdowns, which meant I took the offending child into the ladies room and spoke to them, to regain control. We never brought them to “fancy” places in the early days, but as they grew we did. I also brought with us coloring books and crayons to keep them occupied. Most of all, I never allowed them to disturb other diners. That is just plain rude.

Unfortunately, many of today’s parents do not teach manners, and let their kids run wild! I’ve been out, trying to enjoy a lunch when kids have been literally jumping off their chairs and running around the restaurant. As much as I love children, when I am paying good money for a nice meal, I want to do it in a pleasant atmosphere!

6. What was your first car? How did it come to be yours?

It was a 1966 Chevy Impala, and I traded my 10 speed bike for it. It was not the best car, but it got me places and back in the day when gasoline was cheap. $5.00 was food and gas and perhaps a movie!

7. If I had a nickle for every time I cried I’d be rich.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

Since I am going to the beach soon (two weeks) I simply must get a little sun on my pasty white skin! So today, I will have Hubby rub some sunscreen on me and then go out and mow part of our back yard. That should do two things. 1. Give me a little exposure to the sun. & 2. Give me a little exercise.

When You Grow Up At The Beach

Monday was a day that found me feeling a bit nostalgic. I was thinking about my brother and sister and growing up, the youngest in my family, on Cape Cod.

We lived a 5 minute walk from the beach and each sunny day in the summer we would walk down to the beach with my mother, her beach chair, a cooler/picnic and my mother’s book. Mom would sit and read her books, and my sister would watch me, making sure I did not try to swim to Martha’s Vineyard. My brother would swim as well, although he didn’t really want to do too much with his baby sister. (I was younger than him by 7 years.)

I loved the beach. I loved the smell of the salt water, the warm sand beneath my feet and the sun on my face. My cousins would come, usually in August and then we would all go to the beach. This was even better because Janet was there, and she and I played in a world, all our own!

Mom loved the beach so much. As did Janet’s parent’s, my Aunt Betty and Uncle George. In fact my Uncle George taught me to dive, and swim distances and most importantly, what to do if I got tired in the water…float.

Uncle George was also sort of my Hero.

You see, one day I was playing at the edge of the surf, when I stepped down and had one of my toes nearly cut off! I stood there crying watching the blood flow! My Uncle picked me up, wrapped a towel around my foot and carried me home, then drove me to the emergency room where I had 4 stitches to sew my toe back on.

The picture below was taken when I was five years old. That is my late brother, Dickie, my sister, Melodie and the  scrawny little thing at the end is me.

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I’m feeling very nostalgic because in 2 weeks, Janet and I will be going back to Cape Cod for my High School Reunion. Hubby is staying home, to care for the dogs, and once again it will be Janet and me going all over town, remembering…

What I Did This Weekend

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Our host is Gattina. Come join us and tell us what YOU did this past weekend! After all, you never know when you will need an alibi!

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The weekend was a busy one for me. I started it off writing my report for the Library and then going back and making revisions. There are some new items to be written in and I am still unsure at the format the other Trustees may want me to use. Oh well, I’m sure they will tell me.

I also spent time water the garden, picking vegetables and then giving them away. My garden is over producing to the point that I simply cannot eat it all, so begging people giving people my vegetables is a perfect solution.

The weather has be HOT, HOT, HOT! the last few days. In the nineties with a lot of humidity. Have I mentioned lately how much I love my air conditioners?

I tried a new recipe for Summer Squash Fritters. It looked good, even the batter looked good, but….it was terrible. In fact, it was so bad I wouldn’t eat it, and neither would the dogs.

Sunday I was determined to work in my office. I worked in there for 2 hours and have gotten a lot done. I think I can get it finished this week. I’m so excited! Finally, I will have my office done!

I will leave you with this picture of me when I was 10 years old. I found a stray cat in our yard and brought her inside. (It was very cold!) The next morning we woke up she had delivered three kittens and died. So we bottle fed the kittens and found homes for one of the kittens and I kept two of them. Ebony and Endora.

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Life After You Turn 50!

I picked up the latest copy of a magazine that I really enjoy. In fact, I subscribe to it because I like the news and recipes and fashion. As a subscriber, I get a reduced price and a few bonuses along the way.

Anyway, I picked up the latest issue and started to turn page after page after page. There were many nice recipes, new fashions, and of course advertisements. Then I hit page 52 (which is off because I am age 52!) and my world was shattered. The column was about what to eat in your 20’s, 30’s, & 40’s.

In your twenties you should be eating eggs, vegetables, chicken, coconut water,Greek yogurt, and quinoa. In your thirties you should be eating oatmeal, nuts, tuna, edamame, avocado and lentils. In your forties you should be eating ginger, cherries, salmon, kale, extra virgin olive oil and green tea.

But I’m in my fifties! What am I supposed to be eating? Or is it that after you turn fifty it’s all over anyway, so you might as well give up!

I thought about his for a while, and actually started to feel bad, then my phone rang and it was a man doing a survey for our local electric company. Now I love my electric company, they do a good job, (the rates are bad, but heck they are bad every where!) and they’re very friendly when I need them. So I answered his survey. At the very end he asked how old I was. Now what on earth does my age have to do with electrical current?

You know, my age never bothered me until I read the article, but today I was actually feeling old. I told him how old I was and why I was feeling bad about it. He laughed and then said, “It’s okay, that’s young! I’m 63!”

After that I felt better and went about my day.

Of course I still worry about what I should be eating to be the best me in my 50’s!