The Dackel Princess

Kindness

A few days ago, I was listening to some music and out of nowhere, a song by George Harrison came on. How had I missed this one? Had I heard it all those years ago and ignored it? You see, the song wasn’t one of his big hits, but when I stopped, listened to it again, and read the lyrics, it took my breath away.

Perhaps it’s because I’m closing in on my 68th birthday in a few months, and I think more deeply than I did in my twenties. Oh, to be able to go back in time and treat people that I love and care about with more kindness and more love.

This song is a great reminder that perhaps we should slow down and not be so quick to judge. Especially those we love.

The Answers at the End

Scan not a friend with a microscopic glass
You know his faults, now let his foibles pass
Life is one long enigma, my friend
So read on, read on, the answer’s at the end
Don’t be so hard on the ones that you love
It’s the ones that you love we think so little of
Don’t be so hard on the ones that you need
It’s the ones that you need we think so little of
The speech of flowers excels the flowers of speech
But what’s often in your heart is the hardest thing to reach
And life is one long mystery, my friend
So live on, live on, the answer’s at the end
Don’t be so hard on the ones that you love
It’s the ones that you love we think so little of
Don’t be so hard on the ones that you need
It’s the ones that you need we think so little of
Don’t be so hard on the ones that you love
It’s the ones that you love we think so little of
Oh, we think so little of
The ones that we love
Sometimes
Isn’t it a pity how we hurt
The ones that we love the most of all?
The ones we shouldn’t hurt at all
You know my faults, now let my foibles pass
‘Cause life is one long enigma, my friend
Live on, live on, the answer’s at the end
Don’t be so hard on the ones that you love
It’s the ones that you love we think so little of
Don’t be so hard on the ones that you need
It’s the ones that you need we think so little of
Don’t be so hard on the ones that you love
It’s the ones that you love we think so little of
Don’t be so hard on the ones that you need
It’s the ones that you need we think so little of
Mmm, the ones that we love
We hurt the most of all
Sometimes
And isn’t it a pity how
We hurt the ones that we love?

The Friday Five ~ April 24th

So this was a very busy week, and it has flown by. I know I say that a lot, but as each year passes, time seems to race by. The seasons change, the snow melts, and this reminds me I have survived another long, cold winter. So, without further ado, here is this week’s Friday Five.

I’ve been puttering around the house again. What I discovered is that it is time to straighten out my closets again. They’re not bad, but I am not a neat closet keeper. That will be tomorrow.
I went in for my yearly Senior Physical. Everything is under control. Actually, many things are downright great for a 67-year-old woman.
An old woman and her dog!

I have a few challenges, but I refuse to let them keep me down. After all, most of my peers have also been having visits from arthritis. I refuse to take any narcotics for the pain. Give me a good N-Said and a heating pad.
When I was visiting my sons during the Easter Holiday, Jose made a fabulous Lasagna. Now, back when my Mom made lasagna, she used every dish and pot in the kitchen. Although it was good, it was also a little soupy. I watched Jose and studied what he did. It was quick and easy, and the kitchen was not a disaster after the preparation.
So I decided to do what he did. I was nervous, but I took my time, and in 15 minutes everything was assembled; an hour later, the lasagna was done and ready to eat! The recipe is below this post.
All packaged for leftovers!
And lastly, after watching fuel prices soar and having a Toyota Highlander that I love but only gets 15-18 miles per gallon, I started looking at Hybrid cars. I went back to Toyota, where I got the Highlander. I test drove the Rav4 Hybrid. I loved it!Well, at this point, they made me an offer I couldn’t refuse. My Highlander has 8800 miles. Yes, that is all. After a bath and a carpet shampoo, it will go out for sale on their lot, and “Blue” and I will start our time together.

So that is my week. I hope you all have been enjoying the Springtime wherever you are. I really have been, even if it has been pretty cold.

Quick & Easy Lasagna

How to Make Lasagna with No-Boil Noodles

Learn how to make Lasagna with No-Boil Noodles with four easy steps! It is a great meal that comes together quickly and easily, with an unexpected way to construct lasagna using no-boil noodles.

Ingredients:

Chop 1 onion.
1-1/2 pounds ground beef.
Large pinch Italian seasoning.
1-2 jars of Classico Italian sausage sauce (Or the sauce of your choice)
1 box No-Boil lasagna noodles (oven-ready sheets)
1- 15-ounce container of Ricotta Cheese
4-5 tablespoons fresh grated Parmesan cheese
Fresh shredded mozzarella cheese
Sliced fresh mozzarella cheese
¼ cup cream.

Instructions:

Preheat Oven to 375 degrees F (190 C). Use a 9 x 12 baking dish. Glass is best.
Brown the onion with a small amount of olive oil.
Brown Hamburger.
Add Classico sauce to this, with a pinch of Italian seasoning
First Layer: Spread 1 cup or more of sauce on the bottom of the baking dish, then spread it evenly. Lay the lasagna sheets over the sauce, breaking pieces or overlaying if you need to cover the sauce.
Second Layer: Next, top the noodles with another heaping ladle of sauce, about another cup. Cover evenly. Then spread a layer of shredded mozzarella, sliced mozzarella, and sprinkle with 2 tablespoons of Parmesan cheese.
Third Layer: Lay another layer of no-boil lasagna noodles. Spread with another heaping ladle of meat sauce, covering evenly. Next, top with 6 spoonfuls of ricotta cheese. Using the back of your spoon, tap the ricotta cheese to help flatten it out. No need to spread it evenly; the ricotta cheese will melt evenly while baking. Then sprinkle 1 or 2 tablespoons of grated Parmesan cheese, and more sliced mozzarella.
Fourth Layer: Cover with another layer of no-boil noodles, breaking some if needed to fit, or overlapping if fine too. Then add a layer of sauce on top. Sprinkle on top with shredded mozzarella, sliced mozzarella, and grated Parmesan cheese.
Finally, drizzle 1/4 cup of half-and-half cream over the lasagna. COVER with foil wrap.
BAKE for 45 to 55 minutes. Carefully pull the lasagna out of the oven, remove the foil cover, and return it to the oven to bake uncovered for an additional 5 to 8 minutes, until the cheese is completely melted and bubbling around the edges of the baking dish.
Remove it from the oven and allow it to rest for 10 to 15 minutes before cutting. Then cut into individual pieces and serve.
Serves 6 to 8

Notes

You can freeze lasagna, after it’s been assembled and UNBAKED. Prepare it as we did here, cover with foil wrap, then place it in your freezer, good up to one month. Any longer, you risk freezer burn.
When ready to bake! It’s best to allow the lasagna to rest on your kitchen counter to fully defrost for about 5 hours or more. Or defrost in your refrigerator overnight. Then preheat your oven and follow the remaining directions in our recipe card.
If you thaw it in your refrigerator overnight, chances are it won’t be completely defrosted. Check it to see if it’s still partially frozen, then let it sit on the counter to warm to room temperature for about 1 hour before baking.

The Friday Five ~ April 17th

It was a busy week for Heidi and me, and we were on the road quite a bit. Here’s the latest from New Hampshire.

Heidi had her every five-week spa treatments. You know, very typical for a lady dackel. Hair, nails, and a shampoo and fluff. She always looks so pretty and smells so nice. That is, until we get home and she goes out and rubs her clean body in the “earthy” grass!
While she was occupied getting beautiful, I went to my dentist and picked up my new night guard. Call me strange, but after all this time, I actually sleep better when it is in.
On Tuesday, I caught up on my laundry, and once the sheets were changed on the bed, I put out my new toss pillows.I had ordered these a while ago. A picture of each of the dackels that I have had in my life. Placing them on my bed each morning brings joy to my heart as I recall the loves of my past and now Heidi. It also forces me to make my bed, just so I can place my pillows!
Wednesday was my planning day. I want to go to Punta Gorda to check in on a few things and then have a mini-vacation. Plane tickets, rental car, and hotel reservations all made. Now I just need to get to the day, and off I will go!
On Thursday, I got a Pixie-er Pixie cut and had my nails done. It sure lifts the spirit.
And on Friday, it was blood work day. Have you noticed that if you get there right after they open, there are always a bunch of people rushing to the door? I was second in line, and a rather grouchy older woman tried to cut in front of me. I wasn’t sure what to do, thankfully the Phlebotomist rescued me.

And how was your week?

The Friday Five ~ April 10th

I am home again after my trip to New Jersey. I had the very best time. I am sure many people wouldn’t think of New Jersey as a vacation destination, but I am here to tell you that New Jersey in the Spring is simply beautiful. So, here is my Friday Five.

1. I drove to Concord, New Hampshire, on Friday last week. I was able to find a parking spot despite it being the start of Spring vacation for many colleges. I have never seen the lot this full!
2. The bus arrived on schedule at Logan Airport, and despite the problems with the TSA, with my TSA Precheck, I sailed through in exactly 12 minutes! I had time to kill and had lunch before my departure.I took a Delta Connection flight and was pleasantly surprised to find no turbulence at all. We were slightly late getting to Newark, and so Air Traffic Control vectored us around, giving me splendid views of New York City. It was then that the fun began.
3. My son picked me up at the airport, and we drove back to their place. That night Jon cooked dinner (fabulous pork chops!), and Jon, Jose, and I started in on “Wicked” part one.If you haven’t seen it, then set aside time for both parts one and two. It is a fantastic movie with beautiful music. I would not recommend it for young children. But it is certainly fine for teenagers.
4. On Sunday, we went to the local Catholic Church for Easter Mass.I loved the liturgy, the music, and the feeling one gets during such a joyful celebration.
5. The very best was after church. We had wonderful lasagna for dinner made by Jose, and then we piled into the car and drove to Broadway. They’d gotten tickets to see “Titanique”.
  https://www.broadway.com/buzz/206818/inside-titaniques-broadway-transfer-bigger-bolder-and-still-deliciously-camp/

It was a splendid musical, a spoof of the movie Titanic. The casting was terrific, and the play sped by. Before I knew it, we were standing, clapping, and the play was over. I encourage everyone, if you have a chance, to go see a play on Broadway, do it! It’s unlike any other experience!

Monday was recovery day, and on Tuesday, I packed up my bags and headed home. I was sad to leave my sons, but happy that we’d had such a wonderful visit.

The Friday Five ~ April 3rd

It’s finally Spring and this weekend I am off to see my sons for Easter. They live in northern New Jersey, so we’re going into the city to see a show. My first play on Broadway in 38+ years. As I prepared to take the shuttle out of Boston Logan Airport, I needed to brush up on all the rules.

All my medications and diabetic supplies must be in there original containers which act as a written prescription. No more pill caddies.
There is a new size for carry on suitcases. 22x14x8. I wasn’t sure if I could get everything in, but I did.
My second carry on holds my documents and medical stuff. By declaring this as a medical bag you are given a little leeway.
I do have the TSA Precheck and that helps a lot. All of this is so foreign to me compared to when I first flew around with Jack at start of our marriage, 38 years ago. I went to crew rooms, walked under the terminal buildings, and up the steps to our gate. Jack took my suitcase with him onto the plane and I only carried my purse and a book. So very different now.
I’m almost to Logan and the fun will begin!

Happy Easter!.

The Friday Five ~ March 27th

Another week has gone by, and here we are, the last Friday of March. I think that 2026 will fly by. It seems the older I get, the faster time goes by. So without further ado, here is this week’s Friday Five.

We’re at the point in the year where, although snow may fall, the sun’s angle and the gradual warming of the ground mean the snow will melt quickly.Such was the case the past week. We had snow one day, and now, a few days later, it’s pretty much gone.
My taxes are done, filed, and Uncle Sam has already cashed my check. Another year is in the books.
A week from today, I will be heading to my two sons’ home for Easter. I am really looking forward to this time. It is my hope that the government will stop ignoring the TSA, pay these people, and get our airports up and running again. I am happy that Delta has suspended its special program for the Senate and Congress, under which they receive special treatment on its planes. Let them stand in lines that are five hours long!
After writing a book of short family stories a few years ago, I am back to writing the second one. The books contain my memories and the pictures that go with them.
I have been including recipes as well and pictures of the finished product. These books will be a little bit of me to leave behind for my grandchildren.

Well, that’s it for this week. Have a wonderful weekend and enjoy the beautiful Springtime!

It’s All About…

Recently, I have noticed that when you are a widow, you take on everything you once shared with a spouse or live-in companion, and things can feel overwhelming. I refer to this as ADULTING.

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Key Aspects of “Adulting”
Definition: The act of doing grown-up tasks (e.g., paying bills, laundry, making appointments).
Context: Used as a humorous or self-conscious way to describe engaging in responsible behavior.
Skills Involved: Time management, financial planning, home maintenance, and self-care.

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The taxes need to be filed, and the only one going to Danbury Federal Prison if the taxes are not filed and paid is me.

Laundry is all mine, and although throwing a load in is just fine, it’s the putting it in the dryer, folding the clothes, and putting them away in a one-day time frame. If not, suddenly laundry day stretches into laundry week!

Recently, I had problems with my heating system. Although I know very little about under-the-floor heating systems, I learned enough quickly as we had temperatures in the single digits and teens.

I’m still bad at time management. I can blow several hours online reading (or shopping). I started cooking for myself again, and I’m actually using real dishes now instead of paper plates.

As a child, all I wanted was to grow up, be an adult, and do anything I wanted. And here I am. All grown up, but I can’t just do what I dreamed I’d be doing as a kid.

Adulting is not nearly as wonderful as I thought it would be. Oh well, too late to turn back. I just have to figure out a new way to do all of the above and make it fun!

Happy Birthday, Quinn!

Today, my darling grandson turns TEN years old! Wow! The last ten years have flown by. I recall the day he was born and holding him in my arms for the very first time. It was as if he’d always been there.

Watching him grow was something that took my breath away. I was used to girls, and here was Quinn, a rough-and-tumble little boy.

He grew so fast that he soon was playing football and basically doing all the things that boys do. I just sat back and watched, trying not to worry. In the end, he was fine, and he has amazed me every day!

Quinn is a kind boy with a good heart. Mandy and Matt are doing a great job with him, and his sister, Savi, is a great big sister.

Here is a video I made a few years ago, which shows you Quinn’s early years!

I am the luckiest Oma in the entire world!

Happy Birthday, Quinn!

The Friday Five March 6th

It was another snowy week in New Hampshire. This week, we actually got most of the snow, although it was certainly unlike the blizzards nearby recently. So here goes this week’s Friday Five.

1. At the start of the week, I went in search of a push shovel. I just needed something to provide a short path for my vertically challenged friend, Heidi.
2. The shovel does alright, as long as you don’t have deep snow. I make 1-2 passes and then let her out. There I am in my hat, coat, boots, gloves, and pajamas! Ha!
3. Moulton’s Farm opened yesterday! Yay! I stopped in and picked up a few things. They are my go-to place for fresh fruit and vegetables in the summer!
4. I’m going to my sister’s house for a few days. The puppy Nanny is moving in to care for Heidi. Am I the only one who has a Nanny for the pup?
5. I made an appointment with H&R Block to do my taxes when I get back. Oh, how I hate tax season!