Friday Fill-Ins

Friday Fill Ins

And…here we go!

1. How can I finish packing and load the car up, when I am so very tired? Guess I will have to figure it out.

2. I don’t like sea weed and never have.

3. My hair is a little wild and crazy right now.

4. I’m going to my High School reunion on Cape Cod, so I can enjoy the beaches and spend some time with my cousin.

5. My favorite summer fruits watermelon. I love to cut it up into chunks and chill it and serve! Yum!!!

6. Quite often, the dogs bark, scare me and have me wondering…what was that?

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to an afternoon on the beach and drinks on the Cape with some former classmates and my cousin Janet, tomorrow my plans include going to the beach, and to the reunion dinner and Sunday, I want to go to the beach one more time, before Janet and I head home!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

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1. Share a favorite song lyric.

“Before you cross the street
take my hand
Life is what happens to you
while your busy making other plans”

2. When was the last time someone yelled at you?

Oh, Hubby yells at me all the time, but that’s just “love talk”. Serious yelling, was probably the moron, who all but ran me over the other day and then rolled his window down, yelled at me and flipped me the finger! Hello Mr. Rudeness, I was in the crosswalk!

3. Money, fame, happiness…are they mutually exclusive?

I think if you are a Hollywood type, probably yes. They mostly seem to have ego’s that do not allow for happiness. And Heaven forbid that someone tell them NO. However, if you are a normal person, then I think that one could possibly handle it. I ask myself, could I handle all three of those? Sure…but fortunately my grandmother and sister, raised me well and I think I’m fairly well grounded.

4. What is your favorite dish to prepare for family and friends that doesn’t require turning on the stove, oven or an outdoor grill?

It’s a double chocolate cream pie with strawberries! Best of all, it’s low calorie and lo-fat! The recipe can be found HERE.

5. The first week of August is National Simplify Your Life Week. What is one thing you could do this week to simplify your life? Will you do it?

Finally finish cleaning out my office. Will I actually do it? Put it this way, after my vacation to the Cape, I will try!

6. On a scale of 1-10 (with 10 being 100% and 1 being not at all) how tuned in are you to your country’s national political scene?

I would say 9.9%. I read what I can, I listen to news and talk shows on several different stations on the TV and I’d like to think I have a good mind. I simply find it hard to speak out when people are being abusive, when THEY do not really want to listen to me. I believe EVERYONE has a right to believe what they would like. Unfortunately, I do not always get the respect that my opinion should.

7. What are your final parting words to the month of July?

Glad you are over, July. Emotionally this was a tough month for me, and I am just glad it is over.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

You know, today I am feeling a little tired. Which makes my upcoming trip to Falmouth, Massachusetts on Friday, a good break for me. I want to lie in the sand, swim in the ocean, and enjoy being in the town I once called home. I am also looking forward to going to my 35th High School Reunion. Seeing everyone after all these years.

Counting Down…

I’m counting down the days until I leave for a trip to Cape Cod. You all know that I grew up there, and mostly I do not think about it. I don’t miss it. But for some unknown reason, this year I have found my heart yearning for the Cape, for Falmouth, where I spent the first 20 years of my life, and gave birth to both of my children.

Monday morning I climbed up into our attic and found my long forgotten beach chairs. I mean, who uses beach chairs in the mountains of New Hampshire? I found my beach blanket, and I scored my beach umbrella as well! I have a great cooler, and plan to spend as much time as I can on the beach with Janet. Of course on Saturday night I go to my High School Reunion, and I want to drive by the houses I once lived in, but most of all, I want to be at the beach.

My beach! Surf Drive Beach!!!

Growing up it was a quick five minute walk from my house and of all the beaches in the world, Surf Drive Beach is my “Home Beach”!

It’s where I learned to swim, played freely and wildly, learned to dive off the raft and later as a teen, it is where I met up with my friends and boys I went to school with. I took my girls there as well, when they were babies.

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I got out my suit case and started to pack it, giving Hubby a fashion show of my new dress. He loved it! I love it as well. I feel really pretty in it!

Can you tell I am excited?

What I Did This Past Weekend

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Our host is Gattina. Come join us and tell us what YOU did this past weekend! After all, you never know when you will need an alibi!

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Since I do not want to relive Friday night’s nightmare dinner, I will simply say, see below for a recount of my cooking disaster.

Saturday was a really fun day. Each year I do to the local Greek Church and help with their Greek Festival. The day was bright sunshine, warm temperatures and a gentle breeze that kept us cool.

My job is to sell the fruit bars and the apple and cherry turnovers. I got there early and there were already people waiting to be served. I donned my apron, and  started filling up boxes with my goodies. We had lemon, fig, raspberry and date squares. All hand made by the ladies of the church. Hubby’s favorite are the lemon, so I put one bar away for him right at the start!

Also on our line up of dessert type foods was, Baklava, Kourabiedes, Melomakarona, Kataifi, Bougatsa, plus Spanakopita! People had their boxes filled until there was no more room and then a new box was filled.

As soon as they finished with our line they got into another line for lamb shanks, sliced lamb, rice and gravy, Pastichio, stuffed grape leaves, greek salads and Greek sausages! All made by the men and women of the church! And all very delicious!!!

I see the same people come back each year. That’s one of the nicest parts. Remember when you were a child and there various types of festivals that you would attend in your home town? I loved those so much, and sadly it seems there are fewer and fewer as the years go by.

I arrived home, exhausted, but happily so, and Hubby and I had a small, late dinner. The end of a perfect Saturday!

Sunday found me trying to get into gear. I had cleaning and laundry to do, as well as pick vegetables in my garden. Once picked I had roasted eggplant for lunch, and then blanched, dried and bagged 3 pounds of green beans to freeze for the winter!

I’ve got a small steak for our dinner tonight, a few green beans and maybe a baked potato. Something easy, as I still have ironing to do, as I get ready for my Cape Cod trip at the end of the week!

Humbled

On Friday night I was humbled by a cooking disaster. I had worked hard to make the baby back ribs, but it turns out they were cut unevenly, so when I cooked them my special way, they did not cook at the fat ends, all the way through! One rack was not affected this way, but sadly the other ones were. I was so mad at myself. I should have seen it and I should have cooked them longer.

My next disaster was trying to make a blueberry cake and having TWO of them only raise up 1 inch! I couldn’t figure out what was wrong! Then it dawned on me…I haven’t baked in three years because I am on Weight Watchers. Chances are very good my Baking Powder was flat.

The one good thing is that my potato salad came out very well, and our fresh green beans tasted so sweet and yummy! Still I was angry that the other two items were not my best effort.

Saturday I woke and after breakfasting, off I went to the Greek Festival, where I work every year helping my neighbor. We had perfect weather, a large crowd and at the end of the day, there was almost no food items left!

I came home feeling tired and happy, and sat down with my feet up, sipping tea. Just one more thing left to accomplish today (dinner for Hubby), and then I am off for the rest of the night!

Friday Fill-Ins

Friday Fill Ins

And…here we go!

1. Summer is is flying by.

2. The love in my heart is unchanged and those I love may not realize how much they are loved.

3. Aargh! I opened a cabinet door into my mouth and cut my lip. (Just a little!).

4. I get up, making the coffee and walking the dogs in the morning.

5. Seven: UP.

6. Love is all that matters, don’t you think?

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to grilling baby-back ribs with friends, tomorrow my plans include working at a Greek Festival with my neighbor and Sunday, I want to collapse!

Thursday Thirteen

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This week’s Thursday Thirteen is about the last 3 and a half years of my life and what I have been doing. So, sit back with your coffee and here goes.

  1. Hubby and I took a trip through the Panama Canal. It was a great trip, except when I started looking at the pictures taken of me, I realized I had gotten pretty heavy!
  2. The cruise was in November. So when we returned, I decided to enjoy the holidays, and then starting the following January, I would go to Weight Watchers.
  3. I remember going to my first class and weighing in. I am vein enough, that I will not tell you how much I weighed, but I will tell you that I cried as I stood there on the scale.
  4. I weighed and measured everything. I lived and breathed the plan.
  5. A year later I reached my goal! I felt like a new woman! (I was close to 60 pounds lighter!)
  6. That was the beginning of the end.
  7. I started to believe that I had licked my weight problem.
  8. I ate treats and snacks and fried foods like crazy.
  9. And we won’t even mention the fine German beer I had when I was visiting with Uschi.
  10. Before I knew what hit me, my Dad passed, and I went to class and I had gained 14 pounds.
  11. I kept going. Everyone was so wonderful and supportive.
  12. For an entire year I fought the battle. Up and down, but really not getting anywhere
  13. Until today. I reached my goal! I am back where I should be and I am going to do it long term! I know the facts of life this time and I am willing to do the work to stay there!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

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1. July is National Ice Cream month…your favorite flavor? Soft served, hand dipped, or frozen yogurt…which do you prefer? And technically yogurt is not ice cream but its hot outside so I’ll let that slide for today.

My favorite ice cream is Ben and Jerry’s Cherry Garcia. I love it served in a handmade sugar waffle cone! YUM!

2. When you travel do you tend to pack too much or too little?

Always too much. I am one of those people who say, “What if…” and then I pack that way!

3. What’s your favorite cleaning product?

Oh I love the new and improved “Fantastic” it cleans everything so well. I also like the “Clorox Clean-Ups”.

4. Which is the greater tragedy-an innocent person imprisoned or a guilty person set free? Explain.

Since a guilty person usually will recommit a crime, I would tend to lean towards setting the guilty free. I think an innocent person would eventually be exonerated and get free of the conviction. Just look at OJ. We all know he killed his ex-wife Nicole Brown Simpson and Ron Goldman, and he got off. But could he just keep out of trouble? No. Well, now he will sit in prison for a while, still not consolation for the Brown’s and the Goldman’s.

5. What’s the longest trip you’ve taken by car?

Well, actually it was motor coach, and we drove across country, down the west coast, across the southern part of the country and then back up the east coast to New Hampshire and home.

6. tennis-golf-canoeing-biking…pick one.

Biking. Although I do live in a great spot for canoeing.

7. What sound drives you crazy?

Probably the sound of wheels in my driveway when the dackels are outside. Let me explain. I always worry when the dackels are running freely in the yard and a delivery, or meter reading truck comes into the yard. Fear grips me that one of my dackels will be run over.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

I am really looking forward to returning to my hometown next week, for my High School Reunion.

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I have not been to Falmouth in 8 years and I am looking forward to revisiting my favorite beach, two of the homes I grew up in, and having fried clams and stuffed quahogs! A favorite of mine, that are best served and eaten in Falmouth!

What I Did This Past Weekend

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Our host is Gattina. Come join us and tell us what YOU did this past weekend! After all, you never know when you will need an alibi!

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The weekend was a quiet one. The heat was almost more than I could stand, so I spent most of it hugging my air conditioners. That made the 100 degree temperatures bearable!

Since the garden is still over producing, I have spent time picking vegetables and giving them away. Last night, I made a new recipe with some of the eggplant, and although it was edible, It wasn’t really what I had imagined. Sort of soggy eggplant rollatini. Needless to say, with more eggplant growing, I just tossed the leftovers, as they were not very appetizing for me and Hubby is not a big eggplant fan anyway.

Tonight I’m making Hubby Shish Kebabs! We have so many vegetables to use up, I thought it would be a great dinner. Shish Kebabs with potato salad!

I tried to catch up on sleep this weekend, but Greta woke me early both days! I will attempt to catch up during the week, as I am still feeling over tired from the sinus infection.

I will close by mentioning the beauty of the day on Sunday. Hardly a cloud in a very blue sky and 82 degrees. When I watered the garden I could hear the children laughing and playing on the beach and that made me smile!

Contemplations

I could complain about the heat, and humidity that we have had the last few days, but when I started to think about what is important in life, I decided that our “Heat Wave” didn’t really matter too much in the big picture of life.

A few days ago a friend of mine lost her boy-friend. He was taken far too young, and I know that my friend will be truly challenged in her life as she goes on.

I know. I do. It is so difficult to see that, as time goes on, the pain lessens. Right now it feels so overwhelming and strong, to her.  I know she will always love him, but I do know that one day, she will smile again.

Then the catastrophe happened in Oslo and three of my dear blog friends are Norwegians. Their country is a small, safe, loving country. In some ways it is an end to the innocence. The Norwegian government has said that it will not change the country…but all of us here in the USA know, that the day after 9/11, we were all different.

So why are we challenged with these difficult things? Perhaps so we can truly appreciate the goodness when we have it. I do not know.

I do know that when I lost my own daughter 26 years ago, I thought I would never make it, never be happy again.

But here I am. 26 years later, and my life is happy. I still love Katie. I still miss her terribly. I still do not understand why she died. I still hate it.

But…my life is good. I have my family, both human and fur, and I love and in turn I am loved!

Life has gone on!

And I’m okay!