Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. How did you welcome the month of July, and tell us one fun thing you did to celebrate the 4th. (or the weekend for any non-USA residents playing along today)

The fourth was a challenge. Two and a half year old Lili (White German Shepherd, 80 pounds) was terrified of the noise.

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I used some Benedryl to calm her, but the poor girl was simply frantic.

I did make a nice roast and vegetable stir fry, as well as an awesome fruit salad!

2. Right now..what’s your favorite red thing? white thing? blue thing?

Red and blue, my fruit salad with watermelon and blueberries! White thing? Mmmmm, Gee, not sure. Maybe my coffee mug!

3. Wave the white flag, raise a red flag, fly your freak flag…which ‘flag’ have you flown most recently? Explain.

I have no idea what a freak flag is. None of the above fit. I am celebrating right now, as I am getting a lot done de-cluttering wise!

4. According to Cond Nast Traveler these are the seven best places to visit in July-

a boat safari in Botswanna’s Okavango Delta, Riviera Maya Mexico (it’s whale shark season and apparently you can swim with them), Yellowstone and the Grand Tetons, Pamploma Spain, St. Petersburg Russia, the Fuji Rock Festival at Mount Naeba Japan, the Salzburg Festival in Salzburg Austria

If time and money weren’t factors would you want to see any/all of these? Which would you most like to see and why?

Oh I would go to Salzburg, Austria! And since money is no object I would take my sister, daughter, grandchildren and cousin, as well as send for a few of my best friends!

5. Grilled cheese, pimento cheese, or mac and cheese…your favorite from the cheesy treats listed?

On a day when I have a winter cold and feel feverish, I find comfort in grilled cheese, with Campbell’s tomato soup!

6. What makes you sweat?

Since menopause set in, almost anything and everything!

7. Your favorite movie with a ‘patriotic’ theme of some sort?

Well, for fun I think the American President, with Michael Douglas.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

I am trying to adjust myself to learn to live and like coffee with no cream, and finding that a bit tough. I love my fat free creamer, but when I looked at the number of Smart Points in each cup I drank, I decided to kick the FF Creamer habit. Boy is this tough! Next is my tea.

It’s All About…

It’s All About… the love in your life!

I was think the other day about how incredibly special it is, when you have your children. You see their beautiful faces for the first time and I could not imagine loving anyone as much as my child on that day!

But then, I held Savannah, and suddenly my heart grew and I felt the same overwhelming love that I had for my girls.

As I have watched Savi grow over the last four years, this thing called love has grown bigger and more special. I find I live for our visits and there is nothing better than to hear her call my name, as she throws herself into my arms!

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The delight in having this grandchild is pretty amazing. Each step she takes, each milestone, each moment, fills me with such joy!

 

Then Quinn arrived. I had daughters, and so Quinn is my first boy! My darling grand-baby boy! From the moment I laid eyes on him, I felt my heart grow again! This beautiful, magical baby boy came into our lives, and yet, it seemed he’d always been with us.

 

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Watching him grow, and smile for the first time, and focus on a toy, or a voice, and laugh as I change his diaper, just fills me up with such happiness.

These two children, these beautiful, happy, loving kids, are the answer to so many of my prayers. And I am thankful. So very thankful for all this love.

Friday Five

This week I am thinking about Weight Watchers and how to make the plan work for me. I didn’t do particularly well this week at class, but not because I didn’t stick to the plan, but more, I think, because my choices need a little revamping.

  1. Ice Cream. I found a wonderful sugar free ice cream, and I really enjoy it! I measure 1/2 a cup and eat it in the evening. I think perhaps, I need to make this a twice a week treat and not an every night one! Change one.
  2. Pop corn is another munchie favorite. But both the sodium in the brand I like, and the carbs, may not be good for daily consumption. So I plan to limit this to every other day.
  3. I stopped at the grocery store on Wednesday and bought three different melons. I plan to make a fruit bowl/salad of these melons and some berries.
  4. I also bought some flash frozen Cod Loins. These are wonderful. They are nice hunks of Cod, that were frozen right on the ship, after being caught and cleaned. BJ’s have them in their meat section in a frozen food freezer, in the center isle.
  5. I also plan to work several hours each day to clean the formal living room, and take all the clothes, shoes, and coats, I have stored there to be donated, down to St. Vincent DePaul. Working in there, will count to a large extent, some extra exercise this week! Thus making it a part of my overhauled WW plan!

Have a great, happy and safe, holiday weekend, here in the States.

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It’s our 4th of July, and I bet the traffic up here in the Lakes and Mountains of New Hampshire, will really pick up!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. It’s officially summer (in the northern hemisphere anyway). Which summer month is best and why?

August. It seems that everyone is on vacation, no one is moving fast, and there are families enjoying the beach near our home. I hear children laughing and splashing and it is a wonderful happy time!

2. Can you swim? How did you learn? June 27th is National Sunglasses Day. How many pair do you own?

Yes, I can swim. I think I learned to swim about the time I learned to walk. In fact, Mom used to tie a rope to me, as I would try to swim away! Here I am, about the age of three with my big sister, Melodie!

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Yes, I own a pair of prescription sunglasses and then several junkie pairs that fit over my glasses.

3. What characteristic do you judge most harshly in yourself? How about in others?

My appearance I think. I try not to, but since my surgery, I have really wallowed. I am trying now to stop it and to see myself in a kinder light.

4. Robert Frost wrote the now well known poem entitled The Road Not Taken. What’s a road (literal or figurative) you’ve always wanted to travel, and where do you hope it takes you?

I dream of taking a road that will lead me to a new home, in a new town, closer to Mandy and the children.

5. Popsicles-yay or nay? If you answered yay, what’s your favorite flavor?

Yay! And cherry is my favorite!

6. Brexit-on a scale of 1-10 how knowledgeable are you on what’s involved here? (1=very knowledgeable and 10=what’s Brexit) Is this news you’ll follow or is it something you think won’t impact your life in any way shape or form?

I’ve followed it quite a bit. Although no one can predict the eventual outcome of Brexit for the UK, it actually will affect me in the form of my step-daughter is married to a Brit. and she also became British last year. They both will be affected.

I’m only doing six this week as I have run out of time and answers. I will be back next week with, I hope, a complete list!

 

Deep Thoughts

My much loved, cousin (in-law) passed away this past weekend. Although we technically were not related anymore (by divorce), Janice and I stayed friends all these years. She was smart and silly, and happy and loving. The best of all worlds.

It got me thinking about life and on a reflection I made, just about a year ago.

Rest in peace, dear Janice. You were greatly loved, and will be missed tremendously!

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I was thinking today about life. How each and every one of us has a very individual life, despite what we may share with family and friends.

I’ve had some moments, some times in my life, that I went through alone, with no one beside me. Be it a shopping trip, or a plane ride to see someone, or even going off to grocery shop, and stopping for a meal alone. Or even more challenging times.

The experiences are singular and we alone have the memories.

Some people might not like that idea. They’re very group oriented. And yet, it is the sweetness of our individuality, that can actually enrich our relationships with other people.

I value my alone time. My quiet time. I like to read, or write, or maybe cook something wonderful. But it’s during this time that my soul’s internal batteries recharge.

I think I was 7 or 8 years old when I realized I really liked being off by myself. Back then it was perfectly fine for your kid to ride their bike all around town. And I did.

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I rode to the local convenience store. Often getting bread, milk and cigarettes for my mother. Then riding home. Sometimes I rode to the beach and sat on the jetties watching the ocean.

On some occasions I had company, but more often then not I was alone. And that was just fine.

Looking back I realize the importance of learning to be alone. I never realized it until I was well into my 50’s.

Love yourself. Be happy with yourself, and the world will be full of adventures. Alone or with those you love!

Friday Five

Here we go. Another week has flown by. The beginning of summer, complete with high temperatures and an explosion of growth both in the orchard and the garden. Here’s what else is happening.

  1. My darling Greta is really slowing down. The pain medication is working well to keep her comfortable, but my dear pup gets gray/whiter, by the day. I’m not a happy camper when it comes to my doggies getting older.
  2. Hubby was busy all day caring for the fruit trees. He came in to eat his lunch, and dinner, and now at 8:30 PM on Thursday night, and he is finally done.
  3. I went to the grocery store today and there was a display of fresh corn on the cob. One of my favorites. I went over to check it out, and the husks were moist and fresh looking. I lifted an ear up to my nose, and I swear to God, it smelled fresh!
  4. I brought two home and cooked them for dinner. Hubby was teasing me the entire time about the ears smelling fresh, but once we tasted the corn, we knew! Fresh corn on the cob!
  5. I will end this week’s Friday Five with an interesting movie I saw this week. “The Age of Adaline”. I had heard that some people really liked it and some did not.
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    After seeing it, I suspect it is mostly a chick flick. It is slow and steady and full of special, intimate, moments. Good acting, good story and a sweetness not seen in many movies these days.

Summertime

I grew in Falmouth on Cape Cod and my summers were always full of sun, sea and soft, cool, cotton sheets after a long day at the beach.

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The Raft at Surf Drive Beach.

I swam almost before I could walk, dreamed of magical kingdoms, built in the sand, and lay on my towel watching the clouds drift by in the afternoon. I remember thinking that time went so slowly as I lay there, that things would always be like that.

I ran barefoot all summer long through the sweet grass, and the scent of lilacs and roses and the ocean were always there. (Or so it seemed)

The feel of salt on my skin, the taste of it on my lips, and the laughter in the air, as I climbed the jetties along the Surf Drive Beach.

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I’m the one in the darker blue bathing suit and the tough look on my face!

When I didn’t walk to the beach, I rode my trusty Schwinn Bike all over town.

Fireflies, cookouts on the grill and marshmallows too. Telling stories in the dark, movies at the drive-in and ice cream cones at Dairy Queen!

Pop cycles and root beer floats, fried clams and frozen Milkyway bars. Lobster and butter, and strawberry shortcakes at the church festival.

Sunshine and happiness, visiting with relatives who flocked to our house and the beach. Summers are full of some of the best memories in my life!

This & That

The first day of summer dawned with unusually high temperatures and just enough humidity to remind me why I am happy I don’t live in Florida any more!

Both Hubby and I spent a lot of time out watering the garden, and patio pots, as it was hot enough to dry out the soil extremely fast.

Greta is our constant companion. She loves going out with us and just lies in the grass, sunning herself, while we water the garden. She doesn’t run off, or chase chipmunks, she just enjoys being with me or Hubby.

Hubby discovered that our coffee maker (we are on our 4th replacement from the manufacturer) is starting to have trouble with the digital display. At first I thought, no big deal, we don’t use the clock, but then I realized that I use the display for cleaning the coffee maker, setting the heat and also setting the time that it stays hot. Essentially, you use it for everything!

So Hubby, is correct. When this one dies, we need to just chuck it and find a new coffee maker. And no, not a Keurig. Hubby and I drink far too much coffee we would go broke buying pods!

The sunset on Monday night was quite beautiful. We joined our neighbor for a sunset gathering. It’s sort of an unofficial way of celebrating each beautiful day.

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Friday Five

My Friday Five is dedicated to the men who shaped my life, as I was growing up.

  • 1. My Dad. He was an amazingly talented musician and he passed along his love of music to me. Dad was devoted to our community. He played the organ at both the Congregational Church and the Catholic Church in North Falmouth.

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    He was the Music Director at Highfield Theater for many years. He also was a summer police officer in our town. And when we went to local parks for cook-outs, Dad was the burger-meister! He has been gone a long time now, but I still think of him often and miss his wry sense of humor.

    2. My Uncle George. He was the father who taught me everything growing up. How to swim, how to dive, how to bowl, how to care.

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    When I was about 7 years old I cut my toe badly at the beach and he carried me all the way home! He was not a loud man, but in his quiet loving way, I just knew that I was one of his special kids. In fact, when Hubby and I married, Uncle George walked me down the isle. I miss this sweet, loving, wonderful man!

    3. My Uncle Bob. He was fun to be with. But, he required that I act like a mini adult too. That was fine.

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    I did a lot of things with him and his wife, Auntie Cynthia. I remember being on his boat, or when they took me to their home in Quincy and to museums. And I recall my Uncle once got a monkey. Cute, but it didn’t last for long.

    4. My Papa Fred. Another quiet man, who was quite old when I lived with him and Grandma. But he showed me something important.

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    What real love between a man and woman was all about. I would watch Papa and Grandma sitting on their sofa watching Lawrence Welk. Papa would hold Grandma’s feet in his lap and stroke them gently. He simply adored Grandma, and had all of his life.

    5. My Papa Sam, my Dad’s Dad. I didn’t know him as well, but I remember him taking me to the Prudential Building in the summer to listen to the Barbershop Quartets sing.

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    I remember sitting on his lap and listening to him sing along. He had such a beautiful voice.

     

    These 5 men helped to shape the woman I grew up to be. Each special in their own way, and now, each greatly missed.

    Happy Father’s Day! I remember you all with love and many memories that make me smile!