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I was concerned, only slightly, about Hurricane Sandy. The track of that storm, was south of us, and did not appear to be headed our way. Still, I prepared with food and water, and gas for the generator.

I also baked and cooked meals, and generally kept myself busier than usual, to burn off the extra energy that I had. Stress does that to me.

As I predicted, Sandy went south west of us, and all we had was a little wind and rain. We did lose our internet and cable, but never did lose our power. Funny how that worked. I couldn’t communicate “online” for nearly 24 hours and I felt so isolated! I started telling myself I needed a “Smart Phone”.

Of course, by the time our cable came back, the thought of an expensive “Smart Phone” vanished and life went on.

The next day dawned dark and gloomy. We heard that it would rain off and on most of the day, and it did. Then, around dinner time, my weather bug went off on my computer telling me that a Thunder Storm was headed our way, with severe lightening, winds, and rain. The storm was moving at 65 miles per hour and was already in Concord. Next stop…our home!

Hubby ran out to put the fruit tree ladders on the grass, and turn over our patio table. No sooner had he come in, then the storm began!

The one good thing was, going 65 miles an hour, the storm blew by us pretty fast. And lucky for us, the real damaging winds were further west from us. A heavy down-burst hit Franklin, New Hampshire and destroyed a few houses!

Wednesday arrived with gray skies, which cleared from time to time. Hubby worked in the yard clearing some fallen branches, and as usual, I was cooking.

My heart breaks for all those along the Northeastern Coast of the United States, who have lost their homes to Hurricane Sandy. So, so, sad!

Meanwhile, it was Halloween today and Mandy sent me a picture of Savannah! I leave you with this bit of sweetness!

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Life

I’ll be 54 years old next month. I have known the biggest joys in life, as well as the deepest woes. My life has always kind of reminded me of a Soap Opera. People used to say that nothing like the things that happened on “All My Children” could possibly happen in “real” life, but I’m here to tell you that it’s true. Life is as crazy and unexpected, and busy, just like “All My Children” used to be.

I missĀ  my Soap Opera. “All My Children” helped me believe that I wasn’t in this world alone. No matter how crazy my life got, I could always escape it for one hour a day, with that wonderful Soap.

Life is a funny thing. I have called it the great equalizer. You see, as good and true as you try to be in your life, bad things will happen, to good people.

My friend, the one I mentioned last week is very ill. She has cancer and will need chemo or radiation or both. Her type of cancer is a really bad one. I know. Last summer I lost a High School Classmate to this same disease.

I was 19 when my brother died of Cancer. He was not quite 27. He was quite literally filled with Cancer.

Over the years far more friends and relatives have been diagnosed with cancer. Most recently my cousin Janet, who showed the world just how to kick Cancer’s Butt!

I have lost people in my life to untimely death. Like my daughter, Katie who was only 6 years old. I have seen them suffer, and I ask myself, why?

But then, I have also known the greatest joy!

I have watched my own daughters born, I have just become a grandmother! Life is so good, when all is well, and my people are happy and healthy.

I’ve run on the beach, body surfed in the waves and felt the wind blow in my hair. I have been married twice and had 2 beautiful weddings. I have believed in love and I still do.

I have known the gentleness of a dogs love, and watched puppies come to life and grow.

Yet, I have also seen how things can all change on a moments notice. Just like on the Soap Operas. I really don’t like this at all.

So now, as I watch yet another young, beautiful, person struggle with Cancer, I need to catch my breath and get ready to help her through this time.

Life isn’t a bed of roses. However if we are lucky enough, we will be able to know the great loves and joys to compensate for the sadness.

Love

On Sunday, Hubby and I went to a local festival called “The Chowder Fest”. It was held at a local Arcade, with every sort of fun machine to play on, and also has a bowling ally.

It was interesting to go from table to table and try different recipes of chowder. Some was thick and creamy and a couple others were thin and vegetabley. Not exactly my favorite. One restaurant even had a butternut squash and apple chowder, which in my opinion, isn’t a chowder at all, but just a thick soup.

But I digress…

At the Arcade after the Chowder Fest, I played “Ski Ball” for a while, until my 53 year old back started to give out, then I sat down, and let Hubby play, and did what I do best…people watch.

It was during the time, when I was sitting there watching these humans, that I realized something quite profound.

Love really does make the world go round. You see, be it that love between a man and woman, or parent’s with their child, love was all around me.

These people, these children, were all average humans. None of them were Marilyn Monroe, or Elizabeth Taylor, or Richard Burton or George Clooney. And yet, the people exchanged looks of love, laughed together, and loved.

I think how lucky we are that if we open our hearts, quite often we will find love filling it. I know it is not all storybook love, but what I saw today, made me realize how blessed you are in life, if you can begin the day or end the day, with someone who thinks the sun rises and sets on you.

And our children, that we hold in our arms and teach to smile, to talk, to walk, well, today I saw a lot of that kind of love too! The most profound was watching a mother with her handicapped daughter. The little girl had Cerebral Palsy, and walked with crutches, but her Mom smiled broadly at her while she played “Ski-Ball” and laughed and giggled when she did well, and even when she didn’t.

Savannah has brought such joy to me and to Mandy and her father and the other grandparents too. That wonderful, happy, little smile, reminds us again of the important things in life.

Yes, if we just open our hearts and our eyes, we will see that love is all around us. It’s ours for the taking…and the giving.

Friday Fill-Ins

Friday Fill Ins

And…here we go!

1. I don’t know what it’s like to fly a plane; I only know how it feels to be along for the ride.
2. “She Made It Through” would be a great title for my life.
3. A couple of weeks from now it will be my 54th birthday.
4. I’m planning my own Birthday party, complete with a delicious cake and any number of things.
5. I drove from my house to Mandy’s house last week and had a chance to visit and play with Savannah.
6. There have been wonderful moments in my life when I was happy.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to finding something new and wonderful to do, tomorrow my plans include clearing my garden and getting it ready to go to bed for the winter and Sunday, I want to get the laundry done!

Snacks

Have I ever mentioned that I am a Hostess Snack Cake Addict? Well I am! I admit it here and now. I love Little Debbie too, but Hostess will always come first in my book!

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It all started with the Twinkies, when I was in pre-school, and then went to the Ho-ho’s and cupcakes. I didn’t go on to the fruit pies until High School, and then when I was a young Mom drinking strong coffee due to sleep deprivation, I began hitting the donettes! Nothing could put a smile on my face faster, than a sugar filled treat!

There was a dalliance with Little Debbie Swiss Cake Rolls! Oh how I love those cream filled delights!

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They were do wonderfully delicious, but “Little Debbie” didn’t make a little Maribeth!

In fact I have not had a Hostess treat or a Little Debbie since 2008! Yeah not since then!

Now I eat “other things”. Healthy things. At least, most of the time. Occasionally, I do splurge on something sweet or nice, but no longer do I eat junk food!

Consequently, this morning I heard that Hostess Foods is looking at Bankruptcy! See? I stop my patronage, and all their business is shot to heck!

What’s your favorite junk food? Chips. Sweets? Ice Cream? Okay gang, time to confess? What is your favorite snack?

Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. ARE YOU READY FOR SOME FOOTBALL? The NFL is back in action along with all the college teams. Are you a fan? Who do you root for? If you’re not a fan what do you do while the rest of America watches Saturday, Sunday, Monday night, and now Thursday night games?

I’m not into it like most of my family is. So I read or write or cook while they watch. I do love the Super Bowl, and will usually have a team picked out.

2. What’s something I’ll always find in your closet?

Next years Christmas presents! Starting the day after Christmas I buy little trinkets for the next year. I also have my daughter to buy for in December, as her birthday is December 20th.

3. Share one of your earliest memories.

I remember having my appendix out. It was just before my fourth birthday. I vaguely remember the pain. I do remember watching Captain Kangaroo through the bars on the children’s crib they had me in, and I remember missing my sister a lot.

4. What circus act best describes your week so far?

A Juggler. I am so busy this week and I feel like I am juggling to keep everything going.

5. What’s a food you disliked as a child but you love now?

Creamed Herring. I hated it as a kid, but when I married Hubby and we went to Germany I learned all about good Creamed Herring! Hmmmmmm!

6. Describe your summer in three words.

Wet, wonderful, wild. (Wet because it rained a ton and ruined my garden. Wonderful because of Savannah Rose and Wild because it seems I just get busier and busier!)

7. Where were you on September 11, 2001? Will you do anything special to mark the day this year?

My post yesterday tells exactly where I was: the shower, and where I went later in the day: the dentist. I pray each year for the people who died that day, and for their families and then for all who have given their lives in defending our country.

8. Insert your own random thought here.

A woman I knew back in High School thinks we should just forget about 9/11 and go forward with no memorials for those who lost their lives that day.

I was pretty upset about this because I thought of all those police and firemen and women who lost their lives, and about all those innocent people! I thought of the families who sit down to dinner with an empty chair at their table. I know how it feels to lose someone so quickly, and senselessly.

Of course, Katie did not die due to a Terrorist, but how many of those men and women on 9/11 woke up that day thinking “today I will die?”

On 9/11/01 I was preparing to go to the Dentist. I was having two teeth capped. Jack pulled me out of the shower and we watched the after affects of the first plane hitting the first Tower. As we sat watching, the second plane came in and hit the second Tower. Hubby is a former Air Line Pilot and after the first plane went in, he turned to me and said, “That was a big plane, and that was no accident”.

I cried almost all day. I did actually get to the Dentist, and I discovered that everyone else had cancelled that day. But the thing I remember the most was that no one was on the road. The town was deserted as people stayed in to watch what was happening.

I hugged and held my husband, realizing that had he not retired a few years before, he would have been vulnerable to this sort of Terrorism.

No we must never forget what these people sacrificed.

God Bless them all.

Matinees

Monday morning, Hubby started to bug me about going to a matinee with him. I really did not feel like going to a movie, and told him he should go without me, and then tell me all about it after.

He gave me that look. You know the look people? The one that says that he’s already decided you’re going, so just give up and take your shower and dress. There is no way you’re winning this battle.

So I got ready to go out, and Hubby said all the right things, like “You look so beautiful today.” Yeah, right! If I’d stayed at home in my pajamas, he wouldn’t have been saying that, but what the heck, a girl likes to hear that she’s pretty, every now and then!

So we drove to the theater in the big city and grabbed sandwiches on the way. We arrived in plenty of time for the movie, but I was shocked to see that the theater was 3/4 full! That never happens at a matinee, for a grown ups movie. The Muppets, or a cartoon movie maybe, but not for something like this!

Obama’s America 2016 was actually better than I thought it would be. It was well researched, with excerpts from President Obama’s own books, interviews with his family, and those who have known him through the years. I encourage people to see it. Like him or not, the movie is eye opening.

At the end of the movie the audience clapped for several minutes! I’ve been to only a few movies where people did that at the end of a movie.

I’m kinda glad I lost this battle with Hubby!

A Disappointing Fair

I was up at the usual time on Saturday, and eventually got around to making breakfast. It was a nice sunny day, and since I wanted to go to the Craft Fair, and no one wanted to go with me, I decided to go alone. So I put on my sneakers, a baseball cap and sunglasses, and off I went.

Half way there I realized that I should have worn shorts as it was sooooo hot! I hit the down town area, got my mail and the local paper and then started to look around.

I noticed that there were fewer Artisans this year than in the past. I also noticed that the prices were sky high! I wandered around and around and bought nothing.

I began to feel like I was wilting when I went to the first food booth. They wanted $2.00 for a little bottle of water! I decided that I was cheap enough, that I would rather dehydrate than pay that exorbitant sum! A little further down there was another booth selling drinks and pie. A bottle of water the same size was $1.00!

I ran into many of my friends from Town, and also someone I had not seen in twelve years. As, I stood yacking, I began to feel dizzy. So I said my good-byes, and walked back home.

I was gone for over two hours and I was just drenched from the heat. I came in, quickly changing my clothes, and sitting down in the wonderful air conditioning!

I felt bad for the Artisans at the Fair. I don’t think much will be sold today. Sad!

Friday Fill-Ins

Friday Fill-Ins

And…here we go!

1. When I smell a charcoal grill, I get excited to taste what will be cooked on it.
2. Where is my dear young friend Em. I have lost touch with her again, and I am worried.
3. How to work my FAX machine, was driving me crazy today.
4. Why don’t things always work the way they should?
5. Time seems to go by faster and faster the older I get.
6. What if time stood still for one day, and you could do anything you wanted, and see anyone you wanted and eat anything you wanted? It would be a little like a fairy tale.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to watching a movie on Amazon.com, tomorrow my plans include working in the garden and perhaps making more spaghetti sauce and Sunday, I want to get myself organized for the week. I get to go and see Savannah and Mandy on Tuesday!!

What I Did This Past Weekend

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Our host is Gattina. Come join us and tell us what YOU did this past weekend! After all, you never know when you will need an alibi!

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I was pretty busy this weekend, putting up jams and peach halves. I also was cleaning quite a bit more than usual. Why? Well, have you ever noticed that you clean a bit more when you have guests coming?

On Friday Janet and Dave came for the night. We were supposed to go out for dinner with them, and another couple, Robin and Jay, but my tooth was bothering me, so I cancelled.

On Saturday morning Janet and Dave left after breakfast and the work began. You see I needed to make more spaghetti sauce, and to also do the prep work for the peach heavenly jam! I was literally, on my feet all day.

However, I got a lot put away for the winter, and tomorrow Hubby and I will finish making the peach jam.

Monday I will see the Endodontist and we will see what he says about my tooth. I am hoping for only good news!

Life is floating by us, with the mid point of August telling us that soon summer will be over, the Tourists will go home, and my little town will quiet down once again.