The Party

The weekend was a sort of crazy one. Although Saturday was easy and laid back, Sunday was crazy busy, and it was hot, hot, hot, while I attempted to get things done.

There was a wonderful party for my former mother in-law’s 90th birthday, which I attended, down in the big city (at least for New Hampshire) of Manchester. I saw so many of my former husbands family and that was so nice. These are people I spent a lot of my youth with, and after 30 years, it was wonderful to see them again! Here is one of dear Alice, the birthday girl!

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The cake not only looked good, but was delicious!

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Alice and her sister Georgette.

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Savi, watching the events.

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Miss Savannah, enjoying the delicious cake.

The party was wonderful, and everything went as planned. I can hardly wait to see more pictures from the event!

As I said, it was brutally hot, and after the party, I still had to get dog food, and groceries for us. All of that meant I had to drive up a very busy rte. 93 home. Between Manchester and Meredith I saw 3 accidents. I have decided that there are far too many impatient drivers, who end up causing these accidents. I just stayed in line, carefully driving, and so far I have made it around New Hampshire this summer. But I have seen so many crazy drivers and I am not surprised at the number of accidents this year.

By the time I arrived home at Casa Dackel Princess, the heat had drained me of any energy I had. I was glad to have picked up a rotisserie checkn, and that is what Hubby and I had in the evening, for our meal. I also fell asleep instantly, after going to bed (in a nice air conditioned room), early!

Have a great week Everyone!!!

Saturday This & That

Saturday was one of those quiet days. We woke to dark, damp, rainy skies, that really never cleared all day. I took this to mean I should sit back a little and perhaps have a slow day.

Friday I did a ton of housework, which included floor and carpet washing, dusting, laundry and 3 meals! So today I just felt like doing nothing too important. And that is exactly what I did.

I did watch three movies I have seen before. We watched, “Under The Tuscan Sun”, “The Fault In Our Stars” and “About Time”. It’s good that way, because I was able to write, wrap a gift for tomorrows birthday party, and play Words With Friends. My newest passion, and yet still follow the movie.

But really, all of Saturday was sort of a loss, and that was just fine.

Tomorrow is the ninetieth birthday for my former mother in-law. This is a woman I have known and loved since I was 15 years old. I am so happy to be included in the party.

Seafood Lasagna

This is one of my family’s favorite recipes. My cousin makes a really good one. Probably better than mine, despite the fact we use the same recipe. We also will use lobster if they are cheap and easy to get.

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INGREDIENTS:

  • 1/2 lb shrimp
  • 1/2 lb crab
  • 1/2 lb scallops
  • 2 garlic clove, minced
  • 1 small onion, finely chopped
  • 1 T butter
  • 2 cups béchamel *
  • 1/4 cup heavy cream
  • 1/2 cup dry white wine
  • 1cup Swiss and Mozzarella cheese mix , shredded
  • 1/2 cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese
  • 8 lasagna sheets, cooked ‘al dente’
  • salt and white pepper

Preheat oven to 375 degrees F.

  1. In a saucepan, melt 1 T of the butter, sauté the garlic until transparent – do not brown or burn.
  2. Add the shrimp, scallops and crab.
  3. Toss over high heat for 1-2 minutes.
  4. Add onions, stir and continue cooking till shrimp lose their transparency.

Remove from heat and set aside.
Prepare the béchamel.*

  1. When béchamel is ready, stir in the cream, wine, and salt and pepper to taste, blend thoroughly and remove the sauce from the heat.
  2. Spread about a third of the sauce over the bottom of an 8 x 10 or round pie pan.
  3. Sprinkle 1/2 the cheese mixture over the sauce.
  4. Scatter about half the shellfish evenly over the cheese.
  5. Cover with half the lasagna sheets.
  6. Repeat the layers finishing with the last sheets of lasagna.
  7. Cover with the remaining sauce and Parmesan.

The layers, from the bottom:

  1. Sauce
  2. Cheese
  3. Seafood
  4. Lasagna
  5. Sauce
  6. Cheese
  7. Seafood
  8. Lasagna
  9. Sauce
  10. Parmesan

BAKE for 30-40 minutes or until the topping is golden brown (keep and eye on it, you don’t want the top to burn).Let stand for about 10 minutes before serving.

*Bechamel Sauce

  • 2 tablespoons butter
  • 2 tablespoons flour
  • 1 1/4 cups milk, heated**
  • Salt
  • Freshly ground pepper

** Use 1 cup milk for the sauce in the seafood lasagna because heavy cream and wine will thin the sauce. This will result in the sauce being thicker than usual, but that’s ok!

  1. Melt the butter in a heavy-bottomed saucepan.
  2. Stir in the flour and cook, stirring constantly, until the paste cooks and bubbles a bit, but don’t let it brown – about 2 minutes.
  3. Add the hot milk, continuing to stir as the sauce thickens.
  4. Bring it to a boil.
  5. Add salt and pepper to taste, lower the heat, and cook, stirring for 2 to 3 minutes more.
  6. Remove from the heat.
  7. To cool this sauce for later use, cover it with wax paper or pour a film of milk over it to prevent a skin from forming.

Makes about 1 cup.

PS. I ALWAYS use more cheese than a recipe calls for. It’s always your call to use more or less…

Friday Five

Friday Five

  1. Hubby and I have been working hard out in the garden. I am afraid that we will not be as prosperous this year. It makes me feel rather sad.
  2. You see, I did not start my own plants this year. I bought all my plants, save the Butternut Squash. However, everything in the big garden, except the summer squash, are just not doing well.
  3. I sat down with my notebook and began to plan next years garden. I will buy my own seeds early on, get good soil, and start my plants in March in the greenhouse in larger pots.
  4. It is kind of funny, I have potted plants on the patio, and they are doing just great! Loads of tomotoes, eggplant, green peppers and my basil overflowith!
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  6. This year we will simply make daily runs to the local farm stand for fresh vegetables. It will be good for the local economy.

    Wednesday Hodgepodge

    1.July 15th is National Give Something Away Day. What can you give away? Will you?

    I have a bag of clothes and shoes to go to ST. Vincent DePaul. I donate things regularly there. They not only have a Thrift Store, but also clothe the homeless.

    2. Do you have a mantra? Please share with the class if you feel comfortable doing so.

    “Sometimes Chickens, Sometimes Feathers”. It’s sort of my outlook on life. Neither negative or overly optimistic. Just sometimes it works and sometimes it just doesn’t (through no ones fault).

    3. Who does the grocery shopping in your house? How many times a week do you shop? Do you make a list or pray for inspiration in the produce aisle?

    We do a big shopping about every two weeks. That requires us to drive 30 miles to a nicely priced store. To fill in, we go to the local super market a couple of times a week.

    4. Is there a TV show you’re embarrassed to say you watch? You’re going to tell us what it is, right?

    Not at all. The only show I am passionate about right now are the NYPD Blue reruns on the satelitte. Every night at 7:00 we sit down and watch the commercial free episodes. We are on Season 10 and by summers end, it will be over and we will have watched it from Episode 1, Season 1. What a great show that was.

    I also love Blue Bloods. That is sort of my new favorite. Amazon Prime has it, so my plan is to start with Season 1 Episode 1 and watch up to the last episode of this year. Then I will be all caught up.

    I guess I like these two shows because they are about good people, trying to make a diference.

    5. A recent article listed fifteen words we should eliminate from our (written) vocabulary in order to sound smarter-

    that, went, honestly, absolutely, very, really, amazing, always, never, literally, just, maybe, stuff, things, and irregardless

    Of the fifteen, which word is your most overused?

    Irregardless, literally, and really, are the ones that kind of bug me. Mostly because they are not used correctly.

    6. So apparently dying your hair gray (in your youth!) is a thing right now. It’s called ‘The Granny Hair’ trend. Your thoughts?

    I am fighting tooth and nail to keep my sweet, young, pretty, youthful hair! Kind of crazy to actually dye your hair gray. All in good time!

    7. A while back Buzz Feed asked members to share the most beautiful sentence they’ve read in a piece of literature. A hard thing to narrow down, at least for me, but let’s try. What’s one of the most beautiful sentences you’ve ever read in a piece of literature?

    It is from “A Fault in Our Stars“. Augustus Waters says to Hazel Grace Lancaster: “I am in love with you. And I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that we’re all doomed. And that one day all our labor will be returned to dust. And I know that the sun will swallow the only earth we will ever have. And I am in love with you.”

    8. Insert your own random thought here.

    Yesterday, at lunchtime, I walked into my room while speaking with a friend on my cell phone. I looked in the mirror to check out my eye and there it was. A perfectly shaped STYE!

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    So, I read everything I could find on how to heal it. So I am showering twice a day, using a mild soap to wash the eye lash area (obviously with my eyes closed) and using drops. It is still incredibly uncomfortable, (like sand rubbing under my eyelid), but just knowing what it is, makes me feel a lot better!

    Just Another Day

    Monday afternoon my eye seemed to be somewhat better. The swelling is down and it isn’t weeping so much. I picked up some gel artificial tears, and that is helping to make the eye feel comfortable. What a strange thing this has been. I’ve never had anything like this. It’s a mystery!

    Hubby and I worked in the garden in the morning, and then went out for lunch, and to shop for adult doggy food for Lili.

    I have noticed that Lili does not do well with many grains. So I wanted a crunchy food that was all natural, with no gluten in it. Biggest requirement is that it is made in the USA with only products made in the USA.

    Lili likes the Bison puppy food she is on, so we looked for a Bison based adult food. Luckily, we found a food that is looking promising, and she started on a small portion added to her regular food.

    She loved it, and gobbled down the new chow! And since Arnie shares her chow, we are also changing him over.

    Lili continues to do well with her outdoor ball playing. Every day Hubby brings her out and plays fetch with her, and then we bring her in for a meal.

    Fun times at the Dackel Princess Home!!!

    The Eye

    On Saturday night, after I got done doing the dishes, I noticed that my right eye hurt. I got a flash light and Hubby looked at it, but couldn’t see anything.

    An hour later, I passed by a mirror and noticed my eye lid was swelling and blotchy red. Hubby checked it out again, but could not find anything that looked like a bug bite or any kind of injury.

    By midnight, the eye was weeping, and all night long I woke with an very uncomfortable eye. By this morning the eye was just about swollen shut. I used a warm compress to get the eye to open. I popped more Benedryl and that seemed to help the swelling.

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    By dinnertime, the swelling began again. I need to do warm compresses, take more Benedryl and then if it is the same in the morning, call my eye doctor.

    After the surgeries I have had on both of my eyes to repair my retinas, I am a bit alarmed by this. A call to my retinal surgeons office to run my symptoms by him, will probably make me feel better.

    Currently I look pretty aweful! But there is not much I can do, but ride it out.

    Oh So Sweet N Easy Boneless Pork Ribs

    1. 1-2 lbs country-style pork ribs, (without the bones)
    2. Sweet Baby Rays Barbecue Sauce
    3. 1 large on cut in half and sliced
    4. salt and pepper
    5. One Dutch Oven

    Dutch Oven

    Directions

    1. Sprinkle salt, and pepper all over each slice of boneless rib.
    2. Pour 2-3 tbs of olive oil in a Dutch Oven. Heat to medium heat.
    3. Place ribs inside the uncovered Dutch Oven. Brown on all sides.
    4. Remove ribs from pot and keep warm on plate.
    5. Put onion slices in pot and stir around until they are caramelized.
    6. Once onions are caramelized add ribs to pot and sauce and stir to mix well.
    7. Cover the ribs with the top of the Dutch Oven, and put back into the oven.
    8. Turn oven to 250 degrees so sauce won’t burn and let them bake for 2-3 hours. After two hours have passed, check the ribs with a fork to check tenderness of the meat, if you desire them to be even more tender put the cover back over tightly and let them sit for another hour in the low oven.
    9. After ribs are done take cover off carefully as steam will come out, take out ribs and let them sit for 5-10 minutes in their sauce.

    Lili & The Vet

    Friday was the big day. I had to drive Lili over to our Veterinarian’s Office, which is a bit of a distance. Here in New Hampshire, it is over the river and through the woods, like much of our driving around for services.

    Lili was not thrilled to be in the car, but I recalled how as a puppy she enjoyed music, so I popped in a CD and she settled down in the back seat on the floor and was quiet. I sort of held my breath, waiting for her to flip out, but she didn’t!

    We arrived at the office, and once again, I worried. However, she was an angel! We got her weighed in (she is 66 pounds of muscle!), and then the Vet did her exam, and gave her all of her shots. I was really thrilled with the appointment and with my excellent doggy companion!

    Where was the real Lili?

    We drove home and came in the house, and Lili crashed out on the sofa pretty quickly, and has remained quiet most of the day.

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    I’m just glad that something I have been dreading, went so well. She really is growing up and settling down!