Happy Birthday, Mandy

Today is my daughter’s birthday. She is all grown up now, with children of her own, and she is an amazing mother to them!

It all started way back when, on a bitterly cold December day. I remember seeing her tiny face for the first time and falling head over heels in love with my baby!

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Mandy is all around wonderful, and I am so proud to be her Mum. She is a self made woman, with a wide variety of interests and a way of creating a peaceful and calm environment around her.

She may not always see that, but when I look at her home, her children and those of us that love her, I see a certain beauty that cannot be missed.

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So today my dearest daughter, please know, you have all of my love, all my admiration and forever my devotion. Happy Birthday!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. ‘Hurry less, worry less’…what’s your strategy for making that happen this holiday season? How’s it going so far?

Both Hurry Less and Worry Less. I started by starting my Christmas shopping back in August. By the end of November,  I was nearly done. And today I have just two gifts left to get! Now by doing this, I worried less and that felt great! I think I will do this every year!

2. Do you have a list of to-dos that need accomplishing in order to prepare your home and/or property for the winter season? What are some of the jobs on your list? Are you a do-it-yourselfer or do you hire someone to accomplish these tasks?

Leaves needed to be raked and dropped apples needed to be picked up in order to keep the mice from taking up residence in our yard and eating our trees. Currently it is snowing like crazy, and we expect to get 5-9 inches. If it snows like this all day, then I’m thinking closer to nine inches. The snow plow is all set t go and we have plenty of gas for it. All we need now is a delivery of oil by Friday!

3. According to dietitians surveyed, the most popular health foods for 2018 will be -turmeric, sprouted foods (bean sprouts, breads with sprouted grains, etc), veggies in place of grains, dairy free milk, and pulses (lentils, chickpeas, etc).  What’s the first thought that ran through your head when you read this list? Of the foods listed which one might you add to your regular diet? Also, can milk really be dairy free? Is it still milk?

Ugh! Seriously. On that list, about the only thing I really love are brussell sprouts.  The rest just, well sound unappealing!

4. The Pantone Color of the Year for 2018 is Ultra Violet. According to the Pantone site ‘Ultra Violet communicates originality, ingenuity, and visionary thinking pointing us to the future.’ What say you? Do you like the color purple? Did you see the movie or read the book-ha!?  Is purple a color you wear often? Describe for us one purple item in your home without using the word purple.  If you were in charge of such things what color would you select for 2018?

Now Ultra Violet is not warm in any way. Purple, lavender, although cousins to Ultra Violet, are a lot more warm. I tend to wear  lavender more than any of the purple colors. Did not read the book, but saw the movie. No purple items. Light Rose would be the color!

5. Favorite book read this year?

The Anniversary release of “Diana: Her True Story–in Her Own Words”. It was really interesting to read what Princess Diana actually said in her interview tapes.

6.  Insert your own random thought here.

My decorating is done in the house, and here is a total shocker! I went into my office yesterday and went through three piles of filing, and guess what? Due to the fact that I can now access things on the computer, I threw out nearly the entire three piles! After that I felt so good! In fact, it felt so good, I intend to purge my file boxes! Woo-hoo! The office may actually get done!

Happy 11th Birthday Arnie & Anneliese

Can you believe this? The two doggies that I still refer to as my puppies, are 11 years old today! I simply cannot believe it! I know, stop being repetitive, but really, I can’t believe it!

14 years ago I traveled to Germany with Jack and brought home baby Greta. In time we found Greta a handsome German husband, Bernie, and together they created five beautiful puppies, two of which ended up staying in our home.

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We’d actually decided to keep Anneliese, and Arnie had been sold. But on the day he was supposed to go, the prospective owner, changed her mind. The puppies were 12 weeks old then, and we were smitten. So, Arnie stayed.

It’s actually been a very special experience for us. When you have two sibling puppies from the moment they draw breath onward. You watch how they learn to play with each other, how they learn to share with each other, but over the years you watch their bond of love deepen. For Jack and I, we believe it’s been one of the greatest gifts we have ever had.

In due time, after being judged twice by German Judges, we decided to breed Anneliese. She had four beautiful puppies.

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Although I wanted to breed Arnie, no one was interested in him. Apparently they thought he was just another pretty face.

They are both healthy and happy and going strong in life. They cuddle with me at night, or if I am sitting in my chair. We have been blessed.

So, let’s take a look back with this short montage of their lives. Anneliese was the green collar baby pup in the film and Arnie the blue collar pup. Enjoy!

Arnie and Anneliese Birthday from Dackel Princess Maribeth on Vimeo.

The Friday Five

So, here we are, another week has flown by. Hard to believe, but in just a few more weeks 2017 will be over, and we will be starting a New Year! So here are my Friday Five for the holiday season.

  1. Looking back I can absolutely say that I am glad 2017 is coming to an end! I felt very much like we were being challenged medically all throughout the year!
  2. I can safely say that I do not want to have another operation for the rest of my life. The Staph infection really scared the heck out of me.

  3. And to have Jack’s infected Toe and amputation come right on the heels of my illness, just seemed to add insult to injury!

  4. But we are all doing well, even my old lady Greta, who seems to have bounced back. So as we enter the Christmas Season, all is calm, all is bright!

  5. I have just three more presents to get and then I am done for the year! Let the wrapping begin!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. What title would you give this current chapter of your life?

Then middle. I feel like I have reached the good solid middle part of my life. I know who I am, I like who I am and things have settled around me.

2. December 6 is National Microwave Oven Day. Who knew? Besides popcorn and coffee reheats, what’s the most common thing you microwave? Could you get along without a microwave?

Leftovers. I believe in using everything you can. Never throw out food unless it has a beard!

3. If you could insert yourself into any Christmas carol and experience the lyrics in real life, which Christmas carol lyric would you choose and why?

This song gives me a happy and warm feeling. Family, happiness, and love.

4. Describe the most beautiful drive you’ve ever taken.

That’s hard, because I have taken so many. However one of the most beautiful and breathtaking was the drive from Seattle, Washington, to San Diego, California on the Coastal Highway. Breathtakingly beautiful!

5. What’s something on your Christmas list this year? (an actual list or figuratively speaking, either one)

I want new family room furniture. But since that isn’t going to happen any time soon, I would like Time. Time with my daughter. Time with my grandchildren and time with my husband. Since this is a big year coming up for us, Jack will be 80, we will have been married 30 years, and I will turn 60 years old! I would love to plan something great, just not sure what it is yet.

6. Insert your own random thought here.

Christmas is coming, the Goose is getting fat….Well, not exactly, but Christmas is coming and I have just a few more things to get for the holiday. I did most all of my Christmas shopping in October and November, so it’s just the last few things. What about you?

 

The Best Gift ~ Amanda Mae

This weeks Throw Back Thursday, is all about my best Christmas Present ever! My daughter Amanda Mae! She was born 5 days before Christmas, and I cannot recall a better present!

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Amanda, just minutes old.

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A few years later, here we are together!

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And now my girl has a family of her own. I love you, my darling daughter! You still are, the best gift ever!

 

 

Wednesday Hodgepodge

1.  What’s something blogging has taught you about yourself?

I think it has shown me that despite time, and distance, my love for those in my past and present is deep and true. I remember them with all my love, both the funny and the sweet and have found ways of preserving the memories.

2.  Leftovers…are you in the ‘reheat and eat’ camp or the ‘put them in the fridge until they spoil and then toss them’ camp? What’s your favorite thing to have leftover? What can you not abide as a leftover?

Oh no. I am a reheat and eat girl! Although I do admit that right now we are feeling a little turkey’d out! So for a change I made pork chops last night, but there was still leftover pearl onions on Jack’s plate.

3. ‘Me time’…your thoughts?

Yes. Everyone needs me time. A few weeks back, I got ready and told Jack I was going out. He told me to wait for a while and he would come too. I smiled and explained that I needed to get away by myself. It helps to clear the mind.

4. When people come to you for help, what do they usually want help with?

Caring. Usually it’s for having me help them with watching kids, a sick person or perhaps a meal or two. But my strong suit is taking care of people.

5. If your childhood had a smell what would it be? Tell us why.

Cooking. And that involves a variety of smells. Baking bread, baking cookies, turkey dinners, or Easter Lamb. My Mom and Grandmother were both wonderful, serious, cooks and so my childhood is filled with delicious smells!

6. Insert your own random thought here.

I was off to see the Retinal Surgeon today to have my eyes checked for any problems. I am happy to report that both eyes are healthy and are remaining healed. Yay!

 

Thanksgiving 2017

Wednesday I woke up, sipped my coffee and went over a list of everything I wanted to get done the day before Thanksgiving. I admit, looking at it was a little daunting. But I got my handy Henckel knife, and started chopping up the vegetables for the stuffing, and one by one, I check off the items on my list, until at 6 PM in the evening, I was finally done. Exhausted, but done!

As I chopped and cooked and did dishes and then cooked some more (three, four full dishwasher loads) I started thinking about my Mom. For years and years Mom cooked Thanksgiving for our extended family. Gram and Uncle Betty used to help her, but mostly she did the work on her own. Just like me. Here are some of the things I made.

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My famous Chestnut Stuffing.

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My Apple Crisp.

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Pumpkin Pie.

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Mince Tart.

I’m using almost all of her recipes now, and as I was doing my cooking, I could almost feel Mom around me. It made me think of the movie “Julie & Julia”. Julie could feel Julia when she cooked and today I could feel Mom while I cooked. And the nice part is, everything came out really well. At least so far.

Tomorrow my biggest jobs will be cooking the turkey, the squash and the potatoes. Aside from that everything is pretty much done and ready to go.

I’m pretty tired tonight (Wednesday) so I’ll be in bed by 9 o’clock!  After all, in the morning I am up to stuff and get that pretty 15 pound bird into the oven!

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. Tradition…how tightly do you cling to tradition when it comes to holiday gatherings and celebrations? For instance do you always do the cooking, never eat at home, always go to grandma’s, never miss the parade, always watch football, never change the menu, always eat at 2 PM, etc.? Have you ever celebrated Christmas or Thanksgiving away from hearth, home, and family? How did that feel?

I really am a traditionalist. I love to cook and I love certain things, like Chestnut Stuffing. As a child we always went to my home. I mean, the family would meet up and my Mom did the cooking. She was a pro. I have been out to restaurants a couple of times, but didn’t really like that. It lacked the personal touch. I’ve also been over seas in places that did not celebrate Thanksgiving and I felt a real loss. I think one of the strangest Thanksgivings was when we took a cruise. Oh they had most of the things you would associate with Thanksgiving, but somehow it lost something in translation.

2. Help…is it easy for you to ask for help or are you a do-it-yourselfer? How is that a good/bad thing?

It’s terribly hard for me to ask for help. It has been all my life. Even during times when I really needed help. This year with the surgery and Staph infection, I finally learned how to ask for help. It’s still hard, but I have learned that at times you need to ask and then be grateful in return.

3. Abundance…what is there an abundance of in your kitchen?

Right now? Eggs and butter. That’s because tomorrow is baking and cooking day. I’m making pumpkin and mince pies and apple crisp. I’m also making Chestnut Dressing, and of course there will be roasted butternut squash, mashed potatoes and of course the gravy!

4. Name…the smallest thing you’re thankful for? the biggest?

The smallest things are often the biggest things and the biggest things the smallest. I am thankful for the health and wonder of my daughter and grandchildren. I am also thankful for Jack’s return to health and I am ever so thankful that I beat the Staph infection, so I am here to enjoy life with these people. I know I didn’t actually answer the question, but I think you all understand.

5. Key…What do you think is the key to living a more grateful life?

Take nothing and no one for granted. To look for the positive things in life and to be present in the here and now.

6. State your own random thought here.

I am so pleased that this year I am well enough to be back in the kitchen cooking away. I have printed up all my recipes, and have each item planned out as to preparation and cook time. Tomorrow I will also put the leaves in the table and start the process of setting that up. Oh, the excitement is building!

Have a Happy and Blessed Thanksgiving Everyone!

My Birthday & Getting Ready For Turkey Day!

Life has been wonderfully, happily, busy. My birthday was the nicest I have had in a while, as I spent it first with Jack, and then the next day with Mandy, Matt and the children. My cousin’s Janet and David, also came, which just made the day even more special! Mandy and Matt worked really hard to make a lunch of shrimp corn chowder, and grilled chicken and steak tips. Also salads and wonderful, big, baked potatoes! And of course, my favorite chocolate cake with butter cream frosting.

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But the best of all, was that I got to spend the day with Mandy, Matt and their kids. Savannah is now five and a half years old and incredibly grown up. I remember thinking that I could hardly wait for her to grow up so we could have real conversations. She tells me wonderful stories about her life and what she likes to do. She just lost her first tooth and proudly smiled all day to show me!

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She enjoys dancing, singing and playing. Oh yes, and she likes dressing in dresses every day. She really is a girlie, girl!

Our darling Quinn is growing so fast. He will be 2 in March, and I feel like he is way ahead already. Physically he runs, jumps, and plays with toys that require manual dexterity with his hands. His vocabulary is broadening, and he speaks pretty clearly. And probably the most important thing about Quinn, is that he has a fabulous sense of humor! During dessert, he wanted to feed me my birthday cake. Oh yeah, when this kid smiles and laughs, my heart melts!

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Sunday, Jack and I just hung out and did really productive things like take a nap. It’s funny how it goes, but the closer I get to sixty, the more I find that a one hour nap recharges my batteries.

Monday was the day. Shopping for Thanksgiving. We took our time getting things together for our trip to the grocery store, and headed out about 11:30. We entered the grocery store and the first thing we saw was real German Marzipan Stollen! Two boxes immediately flew into my cart and on we went!

They had beautiful fresh turkey’s for 89¢ a pound. We flipped them around until Jack found a 14 pound bird that had nice full breasts! As I am a while meat fan this is crucial! I also got extra turkey necks so I can make my own home-made gravy! I got my chestnuts. Real, uncooked, chestnuts. I will soften the shell, then roast them in the oven and then peel. These little gems will be added to my stuffing!

Vegetables and potatoes jumped into my cart, and before I knew it, I’d filled the grocery trolley with all my Thanksgiving food, while visions of recipes danced in my head.

We drove our car up, around, and behind our house to unload all the food. Neither Jack or I could have handled the number of trips up and down the stairs to unload the car. This worked, and the groceries got put away!

Today I start Physical Therapy on my neck and Wednesday is my cooking day. Pies and stuffing will be made, and potatoes and butternut squash peeled and chopped.

That’ll make Thursday that much easier for the Cook…Me!