Jack is seriously ill. On Monday the 3rd, Jack slumped over in his seat. He’s been passing out for a few weeks. Usually, he woke up quickly, but I could not revive him this time, so I called 911. They rushed here, and he was almost gone. He had a massive heart attack in our driveway in the ambulance. Then he coded twice more on his way to the hospital. They put him on a Vent and sent him to Concord Hospital, where they discovered a rather large Pulmonary Embolism. They operated, but now we are waiting to see if he has good brain function.
I’m exhausted, but doing what I can. I sit in Jack’s ICU room and just talk about all the good times.
I got the paperwork from the safe and presented it. At this point, if he codes again, they need to let him go. It’s what he wanted.
You think you are ready, but when this type of illness happens, you find out that you aren’t ready.
It can never be the right time. Jack has made the right decision in advance. It is pointless to prolong a life artificially when it is known that there won’t even be a good partial recovery. Take care of yourself dearest.
Oh Maribeth, this is so so hard. I’m thinking of you and wishing you strength and peace, whatever happens next <3
Dear Maribeth, I know what you are going through, my heart hurts for you. We had to make decisions for our daughters, Tricia was on life support and not responsive, neither was Michele, who died two years ago..they didn’t have anything prepared being only 63 and 55. Art and I have our papers in a safe and ready for our granddaughter to deal with. Hugs and prayers, dear Maribeth ❤️
Maribeth my thoughts and prayers for strength and God;s touch upon you and Jack. I know this is hard and feel the hugs my friend. It is never easy and ypu and God know what is best. Love also sent.
Oh Maribeth, what a truly heart wrenching situation. My hat’s off to you for keeping him company that way. It can’t be easy, but it is such a loving thing to do. ~~with much love, Linda
My heart aches for you! I’ve been thinking of you and Jack a lot lately and how long it’s been since we last saw each other. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and hope for the best outcome for Jack. Much Love. Suzan
I am praying for you and Jack. I wish I was closer so I could take care of the dogs so there was one less for you to worry about.
I’m so sorry Maribeth. Please know I’m thinking if you and keeping you in my prayers xo