I took some time off right after Jack passed away. I figured two weeks, and then I’d be able to face life again. What I have found is that perhaps I need a little bit longer. Okay, folks, here is this week’s Friday Five.
- I want you to know that your loved ones will need the most ridiculous documents when you die. Some papers I understand, but other companies require a notarized Death Certificate mailed to the corporate office. This I do not understand.
- For instance, our Cell Phone Company wanted all that and my right arm. I tried calling corporate with no results. So I went to the local store. They had a hard time, too, despite their ability to go in and see that I have used my credit card since 2018 to pay the bill. Also, we have used my email address for paperless billing. It is still not resolved. But at least I can pay the bill.
- Some good friends of mine gave me a wonderful bereavement gift. Instead of a floral arrangement, they sent me a gift card to our local farmstand. I get out each day for a ride to the farm to pick up their fresh corn! How wonderful. Another neighbor brought over some zucchini and summer squash! Vegetables are so much better for you than Lasagna or brownies (although those would be gratefully accepted!)
- So, I am looking for a new car. I want another Highlander—one with all the latest safety features. I am going to a Dealership tomorrow.
- Aside from that, my chilling out starts right after this visit. I need some time off.
That’s it for this week. I hope where ever you are; your weekend is a good one.
You are getting through things and remember that you are not the only person who has a husband who died, although some places you have to deal with make it seem like that. Reach out to others if you need to.
Now, I am quite excited by you buying a new car. Don’t stint on the car. Get the safety features and all the bells and whistles. Is a sunroof needed in New Hampshire?
Love you just take all the time you need and take care of yourself. I know this is hard but the memories are worth all the gold in the world. I did things too fast after my husband died. Don’t let people tell you how to grieve.